Being discarded by a Narcissist, regardless of whether it is the first occurrence or not, is extremely emotionally surcharged. There are so many emotions that run through us, and it is often difficult to explain unless you have been through it yourself.

Often after being discarded, we tend to feel inadequate. We feel shame, and we internally beat ourselves up for not being able to measure up, and sustain our Narcissists happiness. We tend to blame ourselves, and we often believe the ending is entirely our fault.

After all, Narcissist have a way of brainwashing you into believing this to be true, however, this is far from the case. The devaluation cycles repeat themselves, and inevitably, a Narcissist will discard you once he has fulfilled his mission of obtaining you as a reliable secure source to feed his fragile ego.

So much so, there is much confusion and pain when dealing with a Narcissist. Victims constantly find themselves in a state of depression, they are often disappointed, and they are always left heartbroken.